Alanisha “Aly” Allen
Alanisha “Aly” Allen
LPC, M.Ed, NCC
Licensed Therapist in
Virginia, Maryland
& Florida
and the founder of
Sunflower Haven Wellness!
Education
Bachelor of Arts in
Psychology & Sociology from
Salisbury University
Masters of Education in
School Counseling from
Loyola University
Certifications
Nationally Certified Counselor
Certified Sex Therapy
Informed Professional
Certified Clinical
Telemental Health Provider
Trainings
Culturally Adaptive CBT for Anxiety and Depression
Specialized Training in Perinatal Mental Health
Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (Externship)
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THE MOM WHO...
Is carrying the mental load for everyone
Feels guilty taking care of herself
Is overwhelmed by the demands of motherhood
Is struggling with who she is after becoming a mom
Is trying to balance motherhood, relationships, work, and her own needs
THE WOMAN WHO...
Is tired of being “the strong one”
Is navigating people-pleasing or difficulty setting boundaries
Is struggling with self-worth or confidence
Is carrying family or societal expectations
Feels disconnected from herself or unsure who she's becoming
Wants to heal while learning to prioritize herself
THE COUPLE WHO...
Keeps having the same argument
Feels disconnected or emotionally distant
Is struggling with trust, intimacy, or emotional connection
Is exploring boundaries, relationship structures, or non-monogamy
Wants a space where conversations about sex and intimacy are welcome
THE PERSON WHO...
Is experiencing anxiety, burnout, or emotional exhaustion
Is navigating trauma or attachment wounds
Is going through a major life transition
Wants to better understand themselves and their emotions
Is ready to heal, grow, and create healthier relationships
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I operate from a core belief: you are the CEO of your own life, I’m just here to help. I honor your perceptive and needs, using a collaborative approach to therapy.
I have eclectic approaches to therapy, blending the best of evidence based practices like cognitive behavioral, mindfulness, attachment, psychoanalysis (aka how your childhood impacted you).
I use a sociological approach meaning that you exist in society which can greatly impact you. We explore how race, class, gender, culture, family and community influence your mental health as well as identity.
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You’re looking for a therapist who is direct, down-to-earth, and willing to challenge you when needed. I create a space where you can show up fully as yourself especially for my BIPOC and LGBTQ+ clients (bisexual girly here) who are tired of having to explain their identities, experiences, or culture in therapy. If you value honesty, authenticity, humor, and a therapist who embraces the messiness of being human, we may be a good fit.
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When I’m not in sessions, you’ll likely find me spending time with my family and friends , walking my dog Maddie, at a local coffee shop and looking at TikToks longer than I’d like to admit.
Im also a Mama Bear so at times I may be pulling my hair due to the chaos of having a broke best friend.
If I’m not spending time with others, I’m playing the Sims, watching reality TV or embracing my role as a professional nap queen
I love planning events(currently brainstorming things that we can do at Sunflower Haven), cooking and shopping (I do more than I should- we listen and we dont judge).